Facing an unexpected pregnancy can bring a lot of questions, especially if you’re exploring adoption. You may be wondering what the process looks like, how much control you have, and what kind of support is available. An adoption plan is designed by you and tailored to your needs, preferences, and well-being, allowing you time and space to make thoughtful decisions.
If you’re considering adoption and need guidance or support, the providers within Missouri’s Alternatives to Abortion (A2A) Program can help connect you with resources like adoption agencies, material support, and ongoing care during pregnancy and beyond.
Contact us today to learn more and determine your eligibility. In the meantime, here’s what to know about how an adoption plan typically works.
Understanding an Adoption Plan
An adoption plan is a personalized roadmap that outlines how you would like the adoption process to unfold. Unlike older perceptions of adoption, today’s adoption plans are flexible and driven by the expectant parent’s choices. You are not locked into decisions all at once, and you can adjust your plan as your circumstances or feelings change.
An adoption plan may include decisions about the type of adoption you prefer, the level of contact you want after placement, and the support you need during pregnancy. You remain in control throughout the process, with professionals available to guide and support you, not pressure you.
Choosing the Type of Adoption
Part of creating an adoption plan involves determining the level of connection that is right for you.
Some women choose open adoption, which allows for ongoing communication with the adoptive family through visits, calls, or messages. Open adoptions are legally enforceable in Missouri, which adds an extra layer of protection that promotes your child’s best interests and ensures that everyone’s voice is heard.
Others prefer semi-open adoption, where contact happens through an agency or intermediary. Closed adoption is also an option for those who want privacy, with no identifying information shared. You remain completely anonymous.
There is no “right” choice; the decision is based on your personal circumstances, preferences, and wishes.
Selecting an Adoptive Family
You may have the opportunity to review adoptive family profiles and select the family you feel most comfortable with. This step can be empowering as it allows you to consider their values, lifestyle, and hopes for your child’s future.
You are never required to move faster than you’re ready. Taking time to reflect and ask questions is encouraged.
Support During Pregnancy and After Placement
An adoption plan also includes support for you during pregnancy and after delivery. Many women receive assistance with medical care coordination, counseling, and essential needs such as housing, transportation, or maternity items. Emotional support remains available after placement, as adjusting can take time.
The providers within Missouri’s Alternatives to Abortion Program can help connect you with adoption professionals and additional resources so you are not navigating this alone.
How Our Providers Can Help You
You deserve to feel supported and informed as you consider adoption. Providers can assist with connections to adoption agencies, counseling resources, and practical support such as clothing and baby supplies during pregnancy.
You are eligible for the A2A program if you are a pregnant woman who:
- Wants to carry your unborn child to term
- Is a United States resident who lives in Missouri
- Makes less than 185% of the federal poverty level
Take the Next Step
If you’re pregnant and considering adoption, help is available. The providers in Missouri’s Alternatives to Abortion Program are here to walk alongside you, answer your questions, and connect you with compassionate resources every step of the way.
Contact us today to learn how Missouri’s Alternatives to Abortion Program can serve you. You can also email DFAS.A2APROGRAMS@dss.mo.gov with any questions.
